Love and marriage are always two inseparable topics. When a girl misses the boy she wants to marry the most, she becomes picky; when a boy misses the girl he wants to marry the most, he becomes casual. But contrary to expectations, many couples who get married are not the partners they most wanted to marry. Whether it's a girl's pickiness or a boy's casualness, it will affect their love and even destroy their marriage.
Therefore, many people get married, but not many people truly grow old and love each other. Because only by understanding marriage skills can you know how to manage the love between husband and wife.
Marriage is not about blind devotion
There are many men who wear the hat of "honest man" when they get married. Later, for the happiness of the family, he worked hard and fought tirelessly. Through continuous dedication, he provided a better life for the family. Such a "good man" role model is so accustomed to giving his own time that he has no time to take care of his wife, so someone helps him take care of her. This man has a cuckold added to his "honest man" hat.
There are also many good wives and mothers who have their own careers outside and take care of the lives of their families inside. I get up at dawn to make breakfast for the whole family, clean the house, and rush to catch the bus to go to work. After a long day of work, when I return home, I start cooking, washing, and mopping the floor... until I finish organizing everything in the house. Only by doing trivial things can she sleep peacefully. Such a good wife and mother was rewarded with the passage of youth and the betrayal of her husband.
Why do good husbands and good wives not get happy love and marriage? Because they all believe that they should continue to contribute to the family. , you will have the happiness of marriage, so you keep suffering yourself and giving, but forget that love needs feedback.
Marriage also needs romance
After getting married, many couples start to be thrifty and run the house, thinking that romance is a matter for young people, and they no longer treat their partners as "sweetly" as before. It tastes good”. Ordinary life will only make people boring, and curious people will easily lose control when encountering temptation. Therefore, in married life, some appropriate romance is also needed to add some flavor.
Even though many couples love each other deeply, they gradually become reserved in their married life, so that the relationship between the two slowly fades. fade. Even after marriage, you should say some love words to each other, praise each other more, and keep each other's goodwill forever. Only then will love and marriage be closer, and each other more affectionate.